WILL THIS RELATIONSHIP WORK?

Intimate love relationships can only work when both partners have a strong sense of self worth. If you enter a relationship in a vulnerable state (on the rebound / feeling needy) you will lack the confidence to be yourself and this will eventually lead to problems. Before you embark on a new relationship ask yourself the following questions:

• Am I feeling needy?
• Is this a good relationship choice?
• Does he respect me?
• Am I at ease with him or am I on edge?
• Do I feel safe with him?
• Is he trustworthy and reliable?
• Do I respect him?
• Is he needy?
• What are his positive qualities?
• What are his negative qualities?
• Am I happy with myself?
• Is he happy with himself?
• Do I need to resolve any personal issues before I commit to a new relationship?
  
  Consider your answers. What do they reveal about the possibilities for this relationship?
  
  Be guided by your clear, cool appraisal.