WILL THIS RELATIONSHIP WORK?

Intimate love relationships can only work when both partners have a strong sense of self worth. If you enter a relationship in a vulnerable state (on the rebound / feeling needy) you will lack the confidence to be yourself and this will eventually lead to problems. Before you embark on a new relationship ask yourself the following questions:

  • Am I feeling needy?
  • Is this a good relationship choice?
  • Does he respect me?
  • Am I at ease with him or am I on edge?
  • Do I feel safe with him?
  • Is he trustworthy and reliable?
  • Do I respect him?
  • Is he needy?
  • What are his positive qualities?
  • What are his negative qualities?
  • Am I happy with myself?
  • Is he happy with himself?
  • Do I need to resolve any personal issues before I commit to a new relationship?

    Consider your answers. What do they reveal about the possibilities for this relationship?

    Be guided by your clear, cool appraisal.